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I Am My Own Wife

Intiman Theatre presents

I Am My Own Wife

By Doug Wright – Directed by Wesley Frugé

November 4-22, 2026
Erickson Theatre, 1524 Harvard Ave, Seattle, WA 98122
Run time: 2hrs, including one intermission

Based on a true story, I Am My Own Wife tells the fascinating tale of Charlotte von Mahlsdorf, a German trans woman who managed to survive both the Nazi onslaught and the repressive East German Communist regime, and the playwright who becomes obsessed with her story. In a stunning tour de force performance, one actor brings nearly 40 characters to life for a riveting look at memory, truth, and what it takes to survive.

About the Play

I Am My Own Wife is Doug Wright’s Pulitzer Prize–winning and Tony Award–winning one-person play, inspired by his real-life interviews with Charlotte von Mahlsdorf, a German antiquarian and transgender woman who curated an extensive collection of historical artifacts in Mahlsdorf, Germany.

In opposition to the all too common flattening of trans women, villainized in life and martyred in death, the woman we meet in I Am My Own Wife is an expansive figure. Charlotte is at times enchanting, at others timid; she is intelligent, passionate, defiant, protective, evasive, bitter, prideful, and above all, staunchly self-defining. It’s appropriate that a woman who dedicated her life to preserving history is remembered in such vivid detail, and it would be a disservice to depict her as any less than that.

Dani Davis, actor

Wright first traveled there in early 1993 to meet Charlotte and explore her extraordinary life, and those conversations, along with his growing fascination with her, evolved into this “tour de force” theatrical work.

Structured as a solo performance in which a single actor embodies more than 35 distinct characters, the play brings to life Charlotte’s story alongside the many voices that shaped, challenged, and interpreted her legacy.

At its core, the piece follows her survival through both the Nazi and Communist regimes in East Germany, focusing in particular on her life under the Communist state and the controversy that later emerged surrounding allegations of her involvement as an informant.

Charlotte’s story is complex, enigmatic, and deeply human. An outsider who lived authentically in the face of immense political and social danger, she remains a figure defined as much by resilience as by contradiction. Wright’s play embraces that ambiguity, examining not only Charlotte’s life but also the nature of truth, memory, and identity itself.

Charlotte’s story is complex, enigmatic, and deeply human. An outsider who lived authentically in the face of immense political and social danger, she remains a figure defined as much by resilience as by contradiction. Wright’s play embraces that ambiguity, examining not only Charlotte’s life but also the nature of truth, memory, and identity itself.

MEET THE CAST

about

Dani Davis

Performing all roles

This is Dani’s debut at Intiman Theatre! Select credits since returning to her hometown of Seattle include Dracula (Renton Civic Theatre), The Vibrator Play (Well Behaved Women and Co.), and Macbeth: A Rock Musical (Seattle Public Theater). She is honored to be given the opportunity to bring Charlotte von Mahlsdorf to life, and would like to thank her family for their tremendous support in preparing her for this behemoth of a role. Eternal love to Ives, CJ, Maia, Amina, Gabe, and countless others for helping her become the person she is today. She dedicates her performance to all trans and genderqueer people who fight for the right to have their stories told, and to the memory of all those who were denied the right to write their own.

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Meet the Creative Team

Lindy West is the author of The New York Times bestselling memoir Shrill and essay collections The Witches Are Coming and Shit, Actually. Her national bestselling memoir, Adult Braces, was released in Spring 2026. Her work has appeared in This American Life, The New York Times, The Guardian, Cosmopolitan, GQ, Vulture, and Jezebel. She co-hosts the podcast Text Me Back, writes a humorous Substack newsletter called Butt News, and is co-founder of reproductive rights campaign #ShoutYourAbortion.

Lindy was a writer and executive producer on Shrill, the Hulu comedy adapted from her memoir starring Aidy Bryant. She co-wrote and produced the film Thin Skin, available on Amazon Prime. Her solo stage show, Every Castle, Ranked, has toured since 2023.

Ahamefule J. Oluo (they/them) is a multi-instrumentalist, composer, writer, comedian, and creator of live performance. They co-founded renowned experimental jazz quartet Industrial Revelation. They have been supported by Mellon Foundation, Creative Capital, MAP Fund, Foundation for Contemporary Arts, Mid Atlantic Arts Foundation, and Artist Trust.

Oluo premiered Now I’m Fine (2016) and Susan (2020) at The Public Theater’s Under the Radar Festival, both acclaimed by The New York Times. They wrote, scored, and starred in the film Thin Skin; appeared on This American Life; produced comedy albums by Hari Kondabolu and Dwayne Kennedy, and wrote for HBO Max’s Santa Inc. They have presented their work at festivals and theaters nationally and internationally and held residencies at MacDowell and Yaddo. Their 2024 stage show, The Things Around Us, has toured throughout the US and UK.

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Special Events

Pay What You Will Preview

Wednesday, November 4, 2026

Name your own price starting at $10 to be the very first audience to see the show!

Opening Night

Thursday, November 5, 2026

Join us as we celebrate opening night! Audiences are invited to stay after the performance for a hosted champagne toast with the cast and creative team.

Pride Night

Friday, November 6, 2026

The LGBTQ+ community and allies are invited to join us for this performance. There will be a reception in the lobby after the show featuring a hosted champagne toast and a chance to meet the artist. This performance is open to everyone.

Post-show conversation

Sunday, November 8, 2026

There will be a conversation in the theater after the show featuring the cast and creative team.

Member Night

Thursday, November 12, 2026

Intiman Members and their guests are invited to join us for Member Night! There will be a 20min artist talk in the lobby hosted by Artistic Director Jennifer Zeyl at 6:40pm, and a hosted champagne toast with the cast and creative team following the performance. Mix and mingle with fellow Members and Intiman staff and board! This performance is open to everyone.

Post-show conversation

Sunday, November 15, 2026

There will be a conversation in the theater after the show featuring the cast and creative team.

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